Securely Connecting with Your Kids, even when they're teenagers

Dad and teen
Dad and teen

How do you want to parent your children when they become teens? Want to be close or distant? Strict or lenient? Controlling or freeing? Trusting or suspicious? I think the best thing is not be "or" anything. As much as possible, be an "and" parent. Strict and lenient. Loving and powerful. Gentle and firm. Fun and serious.

This of course means you've got to know when to be what. How will you know? I'd like to get your thoughts! Please share below.